Purpose Of Sex In Marriage Part 1

“Sex is beautiful, delightful, necessary. God made it so, it is an expression of oneness, a total commitment, a complete self-giving, a sacred obligation.sex is not a right to claim selfishly, not a Cavour to withhold childishly, not a weapon to dominate one another, not a reward for good behavior” — Dr J Allan Petersen

To maximize sex in your marriage you need to know its purpose and the reasons why The Lord put it in your marriage, if you don't purpose of a thing abuse is inevitable, they are:

1: PURITY: Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband. Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband. (1 Corinthians 7:2, 3 KJV). You need to know that one of the major purpose of sex in marriage is purity, so to make your wife and you remain pure before God get the best of sex from each other.

2: PRESERVATION OF YOUR MARRIAGE: When purity is secured, marriage will be preserved, so one of the purpose of sex in your marriage is preservation of your marriage please don't take it lightly.

3: PLEASURE: Sex is also the gift of pleasure from God for married people so it will be wrong to say you will only do it when you need a baby, no, it is for pleasure, for satisfaction and fulfillment, get it at home don't look outside for it.

Let her be as the loving hind and pleasant roe; let her breasts satisfy thee at all times; and be thou ravished always with her love. “ And why wilt thou, my son, be ravished with a strange woman, and embrace the bosom of a stranger?” (Proverbs 5:19, 20 KJV).

Get all the pleasure you need from your wife don't go to  any other woman for it, let the breast of your wife be your delight not the breast of any other lady, whatever your wife has is the best, get pleasure at home, that is a safe and secure pleasure.

4: PASSION: It is also for sexual love called passion, which helps to strengthen marriage And make the home stronger and better. This is what makes marriage different from any other human relationships.

A fountain of gardens, a well of living waters, and streams from Lebanon. Awake, O north wind; and come, thou south; blow upon my garden, that the spices thereof may flow out. Let my beloved come into his garden, and eat his pleasant fruits”. (Song of Solomon 4:15, 16 KJV)

5: PEACE: Good sex in marriage bring up passion, satisfaction, fulfillment and purity which all combine together to generate peace in marriage. One of the major cause of misunderstanding in marriage is sexual denials, when couple get to the level of sexual satisfaction they hardly fight and easily settle their differences, so when you seek to give your wife sexual satisfaction in your marriage you are only looking for peace.

culled from Secrets of Irresistible Husband
 
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