Sex before marriage? YOUR OPINIONS

By Theresa Oppon

Do you believe that one should wait until marriage or experience sexual intercourse before marriage.

My opinion
I believe a relationship is an investment. As individuals we should always take the time to know our partners well enough to feel confident to get married to them. In my investment there is no sexual intercourse until marriage just in case I don't like the product.

Please leave your opinions below.
Please feel free to email me- [email protected]

Test Master | 12/7/2008 5:43:00 PM
As for me i have to test the machine to see if it functions before i marry her.
John | 12/7/2008 6:20:00 PM
Test masters i support you, now adays girl play with their life alot when they get married they can not more give birth...
Ezekiel Argew Debel | 3/9/2010 9:13:00 AM
What you are saying is right God,government AND SOCITIES we are living need that.
NOBODY | 1/22/2009 7:21:00 AM
kwame Acheampong | 3/6/2009 9:13:00 PM
As for me sex before marriage,now our days you have to test the virgina before you marry.because a soup with tasteless is not good it can harm your srenght.
enti ese se wo di twe no ansa na woa ware.
kotsepow | 12/8/2008 12:55:00 PM
yes we can have good experience but if you can control yourself for your deserve that could be it takes long to know who will come to marry at may be 20 to 30 years.becuase all you have is your life .so love your life and conduct it the best you can for one brigthday.we could also have sexual theory teaches to become best for our partiners.
collins | 12/9/2008 2:35:00 AM
so theresa, you really want to say that you are still a virgin and you dont have any longing of sexual intercourse. well, from my point of view, i guess the spirit of the time cant make one wait at,especially for men, because sex is omnipresent.
adutiwaa | 12/10/2008 10:56:00 PM
i believe that sex before marriage is good. i know now a days young people are having sex not just with one person but with different people. i think if you waite before marrige it will be great. i know people will say what about the experience but you can have the experience with your husband 0r wife. if you have never have sex before it will be very diffcult for a person to be dissatified with your partner in their relationship and i think the marrige could work. and also they can teach each other about what the want from each other when it comes to sex.
andy darko | 3/6/2009 7:47:00 PM
my opinion is that,you have to
have sex with your girl friend or boy friend before marry .
Mysefl | 12/9/2008 7:36:00 AM
There you go again `Tee'. What are you saying? I understand you have to abstain from sex before marriage BUT!!!!! is the question.It's an investment alright but what if after marriage you find something you dont like about your partner when it comes to bedmatics. Ok lets get real here. What if your man is uncircumcised and it's a taboo in your family. He never mentioned it to you. What if you woman does not smell good down there and the man is that kind of person who likes to go down on his woman. What if your man can't give you the kind of satisfaction that will take you to your climax. I know you will say communication but most men in particular will tell you they can even ride a monkey just to get close to you. Most women have also had some adventures which is affecting them now when it comes to the man not being big enough. What if your man is the beating type. These are my views. It does'nt mean people should take my advice. This topic is Hoooooooot girl.
kwansah gyabi | 12/9/2008 10:11:00 AM
I believe it will be goood to have sex before marriage becus i had an experience with awoman under her privat part smell. before and i never enjoye having sex with her but did like her personaly
mia1 | 12/20/2008 5:15:00 PM
hahahahaha you get me right there....icant stop said it all....hoooooooot topic
grozozo, emmanuel | 3/7/2009 3:01:00 AM
Oh yes, oh yes there should be sex before marriage. Are you kidding? don't you try your shoes on in the store before you buy them? Oh my god, what about if the man is or the wonam is something else? what if your woman is transvestile? or your woman dress like a woman but a man?
Kwansah Gyabi | 12/9/2008 10:29:00 AM
As for sex no one was born with an experience, having sex will auotomatically develope in so many skills or what ever,but the funny thing is you cant be pricieced about saying it becus at the end of the day is down to the both partners, but the disadvsntages and the advantages of the thing call [penics and the virgina ]that we can make comments to jurdge our oppinions.
LUCKY OSEH | 3/13/2009 9:11:00 PM
Alusine Koroma | 12/9/2008 12:18:00 PM
It is true that every relationship is an investment - which is obviously very risky. It is two sides of the same coin. Firstly, your male counterpart will surely want to get a taste of your product before investing. In commercial terms there is nothing wrong about that if both couples are SINCERE- It is that sincerity that creats the proplem. The problem becomes compounded when the female counterpart is not a virgin. How can someone trust his partner that is not a virgin for a whole year of not having sex with another? There is less trouble if the female counterpart is a virgin. When i know that my female counterpart is a virgin - well i will have nothing to fear. But the reverse happens when she is not. I think girls should abstain from early sex and preserve their virginity if they indeed want to campaign against sex before marriage.
SUZZY | 12/9/2008 5:29:00 PM
i agree with theresa
becos sexy before marriage is a taboo
we have to show the men that we are expensivo
and we rispect ourself
for me no man will tauch me before marriage
i forbid it
SEX | 3/12/2009 2:53:00 AM
Nana Yaba Nuamah | 12/9/2008 7:50:00 PM
In my own opinion, i think sex before marriage is the best option because it opens doors for you to know more about your partner.
I want to speak from the experience my twin sister had with her husband.
she had a relationship with this man she married five years ago, the man not knowing was an impotent and as a result never talked about sex with my sister until they got married before he could tell her that he was shot at his manhood when he was 12 years.
so i think sex before marriage is the best option, it makes you know all the secret agendas of your partner
Joe | 12/20/2008 6:18:00 PM
Yes wethout sex no marriage
Fredua | 2/5/2009 1:51:00 AM
Marriage b 4 sex is not something i will advice anybody to do, you can abstain from sex, whatever if it won't work no matter what it will not work. have you all thought about the wellness of marriage?, unsatisfatory sex courses tentions, always always angry in the house peace can never be in that houeshold. most women has never ever reach their ogazim, men and women cheat all be'cos of bad sex in bed, sometimes men always talk about a woman hygienie what about men some st*nks than bukom gutters, their teeth, ampit oh gosh!! i was in Ghana, 90% of Ghanaian women carried themself very well eventhogh they don't have enough clothing to dress up all the time. but the men rather are st*nky. so please guys married b 4 sex is not maybe the woman smell under spare me that cocoa Ase talk, a woman who have that problem is sick find a way talk to her or advice her 2 see a gyne. if you Love the person. I don't wanna have a woman who is vergin never.
charles yaw adane | 12/10/2008 9:41:00 AM
marriage is like credit you have to double check everything to make sure that one qualifies before giving out. Remember no mistakes and make sure to what you want. Please keep in mind that a strange box can contain any thing.Good or bad. Take this, you prepared a meal for a VIP with out tasting the meal. Is that right? buying a pair of shoes without first wearing. If having sex before marrying,marriage is a sin, is this the only sin you would commit after ?. Think before you sleep and watch before you leap but in all safety first.Thanks for reading.
OHENE ADDO | 1/10/2009 2:26:00 PM
If I do not sleep with a woman how am I going to be sure that she is of my taste. There is Akan proverb which goes " NTOMA KATA ADE SO'. Women are of different types. S ome are good and others are bad so if you dont taste, you will buy a wrong meat. Why is it that when a man sleeps with a woman once and he does not mind the woman again, she often becomes offended. The reason being that she thinks the man might have seen something bad of her hence his refusal to call again. It s a challenge to women. Taste and see if it is to your taste.
Yapok | 2/24/2009 1:56:00 PM
Someone may say practise makes perfect, i don't think no one was born to be perfect when it comes to love making. It is therefore important to wait till u marry to enjoy sex with u're husband or wife. I think no lady or guy is a specimen to be used before it is vaild. If u Love ur wife or your husband u will wait. I don't think any man wants to share his wife with the other so why not wait. I believe the best gift u could ever offer ur spouse is urself, so take good care of it. The drive for food is stronger than the drive for sex. Everyone can wait but the choice is urs !!!
Xtina | 12/12/2008 6:44:00 PM
Sex should be enjoyed by married focks so i think waiting before marriage is the ultimate and especially young women will do themselves good for counting when your period will show up to wondering if you`ve got infection as well as thinking if this guy will leave me and if he does will he tell the whole world.
sex has become fashion for our generation now adays and AIDS keep on increasing so waiting for the right man if something you owe to your self, having that self dignity is very wonderful so please don`t tell me that you need to try it before getting married. So tell me how many men or women will you expose yourself to before you get the ``mr right`? i think if you wait on the Lord he will never let you down and remember your body is a living sacrifice to our MAKER.......stay free of premarital sex and enjoy being young.......God bless you
kwesi | 12/14/2008 6:05:00 AM
well well well, sex before marriage? there are 2 ways to this matter.. one waiting to have sex when one is married is nothing bad.. its shows that the person want to have a passionate sex when the time fanially comes. However if you want to show ur partner a GOOD time than you show lose it before married(becare you dont obtain any STD on your way) but my advise to all is do what's best for YOU not your partner.
kwaku | 12/15/2008 2:33:00 AM
eat your own food before you marrige you look so sexy i wanna hug you
nash | 12/15/2008 12:40:00 PM
i think this issue is very dicy, sex we all kno is somethn we shd honour in marriage but these days a lot of guys cant wait which is a very big problem for us the ladies
u cant go on havn sex wit any guy u date just for him to see that u can perform. The guys shd have patience marry then enjoy to the fullest, if after mariage and find out that there is something wrong as regards to love making ,you can work on that.
Patricia | 12/18/2008 12:32:00 AM
Well...this is an interesting topic and thought I share my views as well. First of all, one will give the opinion based on their spiritual status. For me, I agree with Theresa..even though I broke my virginity at age 18, but it does not make it right. The Bible indicates that sex before marriage is a sin. And just to comment on one of the readers view, if a man or a woman lies to you to marry and after that you realize/find out there is some thing wrong w/the man/woman, you're allow to file for divorce and it will go againt you. This is why when you go for counselling, the priest/pastor asks if there is any problem, you should let it out.'s againt God's wish to have sex before marriage period. But ah, everyone have their opinion and choice but if it's up to God, stay pure until marriage. Thanks, Merci.
kofi Adu | 3/6/2009 9:25:00 PM
madwene ne se, ese se wonya obaa ne twe kye na ede
ansa na woa ware no. efirise aduane a enye de no, ne
di ye ya .enti woanhwe no yie a ebema wo yadee. saa ara na etwe te. medase''
Tim | 12/18/2008 6:33:00 AM
I don't know about you ladies, but when guys succeed in getting a lady laid, they brag about it amongst themselves. Its an ego thing.

And if you think guys don't gossip, think again. It gets to the point where we refer to you as " the lady Phil slept with at the party", etc, etc.

This is not after you have broken up...this is while you are still on his hit list.

For the life of it, I will hate to have my sister talked about in such a manner.

So what do I say? Its a feeling of "ecstasy" that lasts for a few seconds...but the after events, when compared, are not worth it.

For some of our ladies, your parts are all over the world....wherever the guy goes.

That is just one example...the choice is yours....
mia1 | 12/20/2008 5:40:00 PM
sex before marriage ?sex before marriage ?sex before marriage ?sex before marriage? sex before !sex before! sex before !sex before !sex before what again?before marriage...?hummmmmmmmmmmmm..adam and eve ate the apple of god and it was sweet well you do the math...
ike | 1/4/2009 10:35:00 PM
look sis can't buy a car without txt driving it.
holy one | 1/9/2009 2:43:00 PM
it is always good to abstain from sex until marriage which is the law of God, but the situation and condition of the day will not permit one to do so. I do not invest to loose but rather gain profit, so what I am going to invest my money into must be taste and prove itself worlthy. therefore, sex before marriage has come to be very important. grazie e arrivederci
nana | 1/4/2013 1:48:00 PM
thank you dear but sometimes it is very difficult to stay away from it especially when you find yourself deep into it.
adetutu obaisa | 1/16/2009 9:08:00 PM
lets call spade before marraige is wrong,but the truth is that it is not so easy especially if uve been dated 4 long.please chics and guys let keep our body for that special nite
big lo | 1/21/2009 10:58:00 PM
all am gonna say is dat do wat u want, live ur lyf da way u want it. if u cant wait, go 4 it. just rememba dat u can always mastibate 2 keep ur self satisfied.
peace out homies
Nana Osei (New York) | 1/29/2009 10:34:00 PM
In my opinion, I believe that Sex should come in after marriage. I one thing we must understand is that, mariage is not like a Palm Wine (as the saying goes) that one would test it first. My strong advise to the young ladies out there who are in the process to be aware of the guys out there. Most of these guys are only trying to get inbetween your legs; thus, it is very impotant to study the man in particulay before giving in to me.
gyade | 1/31/2009 9:44:00 AM
In fact sex before marriage for ghanaian women,because women are corrupt tou need to spend the little money that you have to get them. They don't have love they only interested in money they never fall in love. They fall in love when you have already sex with them , evaen that is not garanteed love because sometimes hangout with more men.Women should put an end cheeting men anyway still looking for love
Kwansah Gyabi | 2/28/2009 9:20:00 PM
Sex b4 marriage is somtimes cannot be pridicted well,many christians even says sex b4 marriage is a sin.Though they can say that but I believe they cannot give the exact quotation to support thier sayings if only someone can can give me the woard to woard quotation to support. I dont want any verse or chpter
Abena | 4/19/2009 2:47:00 PM
I think one shd abstain from sex be4 marriage cos de bible let us know that we shd "Flee from sexual immorality.n dat All other sins a man commits are outside his body, but he who sins sexually sins against his own body."

So i will say u commit fornication when u hav sex be4 marriage. The bible let us also know dat our body is a temple of the Holy Spirt n therefore we shd honor it.

The same bible also says dat "there mustnt be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity." These re strong words, so it is important dat we make de right decision abt premarital sex.
dan | 3/5/2009 10:26:00 PM
What a load of bollocks. Waiting till you're married to have sex is totally crazy. There is such a thing a sexual compatibility, very very important. Only people who have had sex will know how important this is. Can you imagine investing alot of time, effort and money into a big "white" wedding only to find that you are completely incompatible?? It would end in heartache and DIVORCE!!! I'm not saying that I believe in sexual promiscuity, which i don't! I'm saying date a person, fall in love with that person and make love to that person. Its the only way to truley know a person. Sex is not dirty, its a beautiful thing. If in the end you are not compatible then at least you wont have to deal with the pressure of a divorce. In the UK, we simply do not hear of waiting till marriage. It is not in schools or in most homes. In fact, we tend to live together before marriage. This is what most parents here prefer. Weddings cost an average of £30000 ($60000) so most people do tend to live together first and save up for their wedding, if they decide to get married at all. My parents have been together for 31 years and have nevered married, due to religious differences (mothers is jewish and father is athiest). They are extremely happy and do not need a piece of paper to prove that!!! Young people have to be realistic about life. Waiting for this "fairytale" is not realistic in todays society at all.
kopfi | 3/11/2009 5:05:00 PM
only id**ts marriage before sex
LOL | 3/13/2009 5:26:00 PM
I hope all you sex before marriage lunatics. Enjoy as much as you can cause when you are in hell, you certainly Won't!!! lol... And believe it is way hotter than Ghana, Down Stairs...
LUCKY | 3/13/2009 9:20:00 PM
kayla anne | 3/17/2009 6:19:00 PM
i believe you should wait for the right one. but i dont think you can get married without having sex because they could be a huge turn off and thats not good. but im not a virgin and im proud to say that.
MIMI | 3/18/2009 7:08:00 PM
l think u sould do what your heart tell u what do. if you want to wait that great if you can't go for it. life.
Emmanuel | 3/23/2009 10:06:00 AM
I agree with LOL,
Just a quote from the book of life for

!!!!!Kwansah Gyabi!!!!!.

1Th 4:3 For this is the will of God, even your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication(sex).

Here is more . ROMANS 1

26For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature: 27And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet. 28And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient; 29Being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, debate, deceit, malignity; whisperers, 30Backbiters, haters of God, despiteful, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents, 31Without understanding, covenantbreakers, without natural affection, implacable, unmerciful: 32Who knowing the judgment of God, that they which commit such things are worthy of death, not only do the same, but have pleasure in them that do them.
Pioneer | 8/30/2009 12:46:00 PM
Its good to have experiance with some one else you are going to marry
PHILEMON | 1/26/2010 1:19:00 PM
i think we should wait till we marry since the machine is going to be there 4ever. And with this too God is going to protect the engine to keep long and its freshness.
abu ahmad | 10/25/2010 11:01:00 AM
Exeperience is very important and make the relation and the feelings unified
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