I Suspect My Girlfriend Is Cheating

Dear Rickie,
My name is Benjy and I have been in relationship for the past 3 to 4 years. I work and my girlfriend is a student. Things are not going on well like it use to, she needs more time while I don't finish early from work and she is always busy.

I feel she is cheating on me and we end up making each other bored the least time we spent together. What should I do? Should I be feeling that way? I need your support….. Thank you….

Benjy
Dear Benjy,
Trust is the most important thing in a relationship, if you don't trust your partner then there is no point being with them. Of course you are a human being and she is showing you signs that she may be involved with someone else, maybe this is not the case.

I know you don't close early for work but perhaps you can spend time on your off days, take her out and most importantly do the things that she loved when you met up. Spark between couples die after some time but it's up to both of you to restore that spark. There are some ideas in an article on my column (Get Your Relationship Back To Life), read it and do some of the five things I have listed.

If you do all these and she is still making excuses then let her go. It sounds harsh but that's the way it is. Also try and talk to her and see some of the things she will like from you or to do to make both of you happy.

Hope this answers your question; drop me a line sometime to let me know what is happening.

Yours Sincerely,
Rickie