Not Every Compliment Is Sexual – Bobrisky Tells Nigerian Men

Nigerian crossdresser Idris Okuneye, popularly known as Bobrisky, has called for a change in how Nigerians interpret harmless direct messages.

In a post shared on his Instagram page on Friday, he addressed the assumption that complimenting someone automatically means a sexual interest.

Bobrisky stated that he can appreciate someone's outfit, haircut, or other qualities without wanting them sexually. He also noted that some people receive plenty of love from their siblings and genuinely know how to appreciate beautiful things without attaching sexual intentions to everything.

The controversial crossdresser further questioned why everything involving Nigerians must always end in bed, describing the thought as disgusting.

In his caption, he directed the message particularly at Nigerian men, adding that such thoughts are mostly from DL men. A DL man, meaning a "Down-low" is a man who publicly identifies as straight but secretly has sexual or romantic relationships with other men.

He wrote:
"Let's normalize harmless DMs. Just because i message you or compliment you doesn't mean I want to sleep with you. The thought alone is disgusting. Why must everything involving Nigerians always end in bed? Is that how some of you are wired?"

"I can appreciate your outfit, your haircut, or anything else about you without wanting you sexually. Some of us receive plenty of love from our siblings and genuinely know how to appreciate beautiful things without attaching sexual intentions to everything."

"Take note pls, especially Nigeria men. And dis thought are mostly from DL MEN."