Sex Is Never An Adhesive

Over the years, the issue of sex has been treated with much caution and an enormous blank space still exists in the minds of people. Sex has been treated like a god who few are courageous enough to speak to and stand up against. To some, it's an adhesive that must automatically glue one thing to the other.

In recent times, the New world's friend, "Open mindedness " has liberated a few from the sacredness of Sex and is gradually wearing off the sex adhesion to which most were glued.

Sex is never an adhesive that must automatically glue you to another. Having sex with someone doesn't automatically guarantee you a relationship neither does it guarantee you marriage. Neither does sex give you right to automatically clinch yourself to another. Sex is never an adhesive.

Sex is a mutual activity that happens between two MATURED MINDS. Yes, the words here are MATURED MINDS because it takes such people to see sex not as an opportunity to haunt someone down or an adhesive to stay glued to another but as a mutual sexual activity which could either wear off or stay on.

The aftermath of sex is never one partner's decision but a mutual decision in that, one partner can never force herself on himself on the other all because they had sex but the decision to stay together after sex should be a mutual agreement.

No one owns no one marriage, relationship, or any ties after sex. Sex is never an adhesive to automatically get two people stuck together but the decision after sex should be a mutual decision.