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Fri, 20 Jun 2025 Feature Article

Soul Ties, Seduction & Witchcraft: Why You Still Feel Them & Why Men Must Be Vigilant

Understanding the Invisible Bondage That Binds Hearts, Drains Energy, and Derails Destinies
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Have you ever walked away from a relationship — but months or even years later, you still dream of them, feel their energy, or wonder why you just can’t move on?

Have you seen marriages crumble, men lose purpose, or find themselves addicted to women they don’t even love — and can’t explain why?

These aren’t random emotional failures. These are symptoms of soul ties and spiritual manipulation — the hidden war of relationships.

Men and women alike must awaken to this truth: not every relationship is harmless. Some are spiritual traps designed to derail purpose, drain finances, and destroy peace. Especially when one partner was pure-hearted — and the other was spiritually compromised.

1. What Is a Soul Tie?
A soul tie is a deep, spiritual bond formed between two people, especially through:

  • Sexual intimacy
  • Deep emotional vulnerability
  • Shared trauma or secrets
  • Spoken vows, promises, or spiritual pacts

It’s more than just chemistry. It’s a spiritual exchange of essence — your energy, emotions, and even destiny points become intertwined.

When this bond is rooted in love, it can birth healing and alignment.

But when it’s rooted in lust, manipulation, or spiritual darkness, it becomes a chain — keeping one or both souls trapped, drained, and directionless.

2. Why These Relationships Feel So Intense

Even after breaking up, you may still feel:

  • Drawn to them in dreams
  • Their emotions in your spirit
  • A strange longing that defies logic
  • Stuck in confusion, fear, or guilt

This happens because your soul gave a piece of itself — and in return, absorbed fragments of theirs. The more spiritually sensitive or innocent you are, the more deeply you feel it.

Genesis 2:24 says, “The two shall become one flesh.” That’s not poetry — it’s a spiritual law.

Through sex, soul ties are reinforced, and spiritual doors open. If one person carries darkness, the other inherits its effects.

3. Why Innocent Partners Suffer the Most

When a pure soul connects with a corrupted one, the damage is deep.

The innocent one often:

  • Gave their love with truth and loyalty
  • Bonded spiritually, not just physically
  • Made inner vows (consciously or not)
  • Was emotionally and energetically open

So when betrayal, abandonment, or manipulation happens, it’s not just heartbreak — it’s spiritual injury. The covenant still feels active. That’s why you dream of them. That’s why healing feels impossible.

The manipulative partner may move on easily — often because:

  • They never bonded deeply
  • They were emotionally blocked
  • They used the relationship as a feeding ground
  • They were spiritually contaminated or under spiritual influence

4. Spiritual Seduction with witchcraft: The Trap Many Men Fall Into

Men, especially, must be vigilant. Many women are knowingly or unknowingly introduced to spiritual practices from childhood — through family traditions, initiations, or even trauma. In some households, grandmothers and mothers secretly pass down charms, spells, or ancestral covenants to protect their daughters, attract love, or gain influence.

Over time, these spiritual forces become embedded. They begin to manifest in relationships, especially through:

This happens through:

  • Food and drink offerings
  • Sexual encounters and rituals
  • Spoken spells and emotional control
  • Energy transfer through touch or presence

And, they become vessels through which spiritual forces operate.

They may appear attractive, charming, or irresistible — but underneath, they are traps.

5. The Side Chick Syndrome and Financial Draining

Many men today are addicted to side chicks, even while their marriages fall apart. They don’t know why they keep going back. The sex is average. The love is fake. But the pull is magnetic.

Why? Spiritual bondage.
Side chicks sometimes operate like spiritual vampires, sent to:

  • Drain financial blessings
  • Hijack destinies
  • Divide families
  • Bind men through sex and witchcraft
  • Block favor and clarity

Some men say, “I know she’s not good for me, but I can’t stop.”

That’s not lust. That’s spiritual imprisonment.

6. The Manipulated Husband: When Wives Use Spiritual Control

It’s not just side relationships. Some marriages are under witchcraft control too.

Some wives use:

  • Enchantments to control emotions
  • Rituals to bind a husband’s income
  • Charms to silence his voice
  • Spiritual intimidation to dominate the home
  • Make the man unattractive to other women

The result? The man becomes spiritually castrated — quiet, weak, indecisive, confused, financially stuck.

He no longer leads. He no longer dreams. He no longer feels alive.

7. Signs You’re Under a Soul Tie or Spiritual Bondage

  • Constant dreams of the person
  • Emotional exhaustion after encounters
  • Sudden fights with your spouse
  • Loss of money, clarity, and peace
  • Feeling watched, followed, or mentally trapped
  • Unexplained sexual cravings or guilt and emptiness

This is not “just life.” This is spiritual warfare.

8. How to Break Free
a. Acknowledge the Tie
Name it. Own it. Don’t romanticize it — expose it.

b. Renounce Spiritually
Pray and declare:
"I break every soul tie and spiritual covenant with (Name). I take back my soul and release theirs. I am free in the name of Jesus."

c. Cut Off All Access
Delete messages, photos, and gifts. Burn objects they gave you. Don’t look back — even emotionally.

d. Fast and Pray
Your spirit must rise above the flesh. Fasting breaks chains. Worship invites divine healing.

e. Cleanse Your Space
Anoint your home. Remove spiritual anchors. Cast out every foreign spirit by name.

f. Rebuild Your Altar
Return to God. Reclaim your identity. Strengthen your discernment. Armor up.

9. Reclaiming Your Soul and Power
You are not weak because you loved.
You are not foolish because you believed.
But now it’s time to choose healing over history, and freedom over fantasy.

Break the tie. Take back your mind, your peace, and your calling.

Finally, Guard Your Spirit, Protect Your Crown

The enemy doesn’t always come with horns. Sometimes he comes as comfort. As charm. As love.

Men, don’t trade your throne for a temporary thrill.

Don’t sacrifice your legacy for lust.
Don’t lose your soul to someone who feeds off it.

Be vigilant, spiritually awake, and disciplined.

Because when a man is free — truly free — he becomes a king, a protector, a pillar, and a weapon in the hands of God.

“For the lips of a strange woman drip honey, but in the end she is bitter as wormwood.” — Proverbs 5:3–4

“My people perish for lack of knowledge.” — Hosea 4:6

“Put on the full armor of God, that you may stand against the schemes of the enemy.” — Ephesians 6:11

Women are into spiritual manipulations than men, watchout!!!

Eric Paddy Boso
Eric Paddy Boso, © 2025

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