You Can Be Struggling And Still Have A Good Life – Sheggz Says Amid Split With Bella

Former Big Brother Naija star Sheggz Olusemo has shared a motivational message amid the ongoing conversation about his split from ex-girlfriend Bella Okagbue.

In a video posted on his Instagram page, he spoke about the reality of going through difficult seasons and the tendency for people to judge without knowing the full story.

The former reality star acknowledged that there are times when life does not make sense and people will form opinions based on incomplete information. He emphasised that it is possible to be tired yet grateful, confused yet faithful, and to experience a bad season while still having a good life.

He noted that some days will feel empowering while others will feel overwhelming, but that does not diminish a person's worth. He encouraged his followers not to let one difficult chapter convince them that their story has ended.

He said:
"Sometimes you will go through a season that you don't understand. Sometimes people will judge the chapter without knowing the full story. You have to let them."

"You can be tired, and still be grateful. You can be confused but still have faith. You can have a bad season and still have a good life. Some days, you can have it together; some days, you will not. Some days, you can wake up feeling on top of the world; some days, you'll feel like your whole world is crashing down. But guess what? That doesn't make you less of a person. You can be struggling right now, but don't let one chapter of your story convince you of how your story ends."

The Nigerian Voice recalls that Sheggz, in a lengthy post on his social media pages in August, confirmed that his relationship with Bella ended in January 2026 and stated that he did not cheat.

Following controversies that trailed his revelation on social media, he made a follow-up post, clarifying that he never intended to accuse Bella of infidelity, adding that they shared mutual respect and genuine love while together, and that what happened between them should not be reduced to speculation or accusations of cheating.