Doing Prostate Massage: My Research on why Some Men opt for Anal Sex orientation?
Prostate world and men’s health is my research interest. I know this research will stimulate a firestorm attack especially in a country like Ghana where sex issues appears sacred, but what I discovered about the prostate gland is something I want to share with the world. I wrote on the functions of the prostate gland last week that I know you have not heard from anywhere before and I called it the Male G-Spot! As a prostate cancer researcher, I have been doing extensive research into the functions of the prostate gland but one of the functions of the prostate gland I have come across is beginning to blow my mind and also drawing conclusion on why some prefer anal sex orientation. I usually found this to be weird but with this finding, I am beginning to understand. This is not intended to support those who practice this sex orientation but is a research I found with my extensive research into prostate health and as a PhD candidate in prostate cancer and alternative medicine.
This very important gland, the prostate, is very small. Every man and male of the mammal species has one. Modern science still does not totally know all the functions of the prostate.
The sages of medicine know that in women, the urethra measures only 35 millimeters and it is very dilatable. In man, it has been proven to be 20 to 27 centimeters in length.
The wizard-doctors from Egypt, Greece, Samothrace, Troy, India, etc., always gave a lot of importance to the prostate. Swami Sivananda, great yogi doctor of India, states that the lotus of the prostate has six petals.
Many beings live in the Ultra of Nature, in the fourth dimension, with their Solar Astral Bodies. The oriental sages state that they have cognizance of those beings thanks to their prostatic chakra. These great sages of Hindustan concentrate daily on their prostatic chakra. They imagine that their chakra rotates from left to right like a magnetic wheel, while vocalizing the letter “M” with the lips closed. The letter “M” sounds as if imitating the bellowing of a bull, but without that deepness of voice. This is a profound and vibrating sound. This practice will awaken the prostatic chakra if it is practiced daily through many years.
When the prostatic chakra enters into activity, it grants us the power to leave the physical body, to move in the Astral Body. This is how we are able to move in the Astral Body independent of physical matter. In the Astral Body, the human being can investigate for himself the great mysteries of life and death. The prostatic chakra grants us the power of astrally projecting the personality. The peyote is a Mexican cactus that produces the projection of the human personality. With the peyote, any human being can project himself in the Astral Body consciously.
While anal play may be considered weird especially in a country like Ghana because of our Christian background and somewhat taboo, it's a sexual practice that more than a few men and women, regardless of sexual orientation, enjoy. So, I have been asking why men should prefer this sex option. In men, this potent pleasure point is the prostate, which is found inside their anal canal. I am beginning to think, whether this is the reason why people practice gayism? Because the prostate –is the male G-spot and located at the anal region that is why your doctor will insert his or her finger into your anus to check for the health of your prostate! Could this also be the reason men prefer anal sex to stimulate the prostate-the G-spot to produce exceptionally sexual enjoyment?
The prostate's primary function, however, is to aid in reproduction. It does this by secreting a fluid into semen before ejaculation occurs, helping with sperm mobility and prolonging the life of the sperm once it leaves the penis. I know today article will cause a firestorm attack but sometimes publication provokes debate.
Before anal play, it can be helpful for your partner to urinate and/or have a bowel movement before you begin. You can cut and file smooth your fingernails as well, so that there are no rough or jagged edges. Relaxation is also important, minimizing or preventing the possibility of tearing the thin lining of the rectum, and setting the stage for pleasure. Some people relax by taking a warm bath. Others begin by sensuously massaging their partner's body, slowly leading to the butt and inner thighs, using or adding massage oil or lubricant. For safer anal play, you can wear a latex glove with a dab of water-based lubricant on it.
When you are both ready, you can begin massaging your partner's prostate externally. Using your index and middle fingertips, you can touch, rub, stroke, or press his perineum (the area of skin from underneath his testicles to his anus), trying various sensations and pressures. Using your other hand, you can stroke other parts of his body for additional arousal. This is the beginning of the massage, so encourage your partner to communicate with you about what feels good to him.
As your partner begins to enjoy the sensations, using water-based lube, gradually insert your finger(s) into his anus. You may both need to experiment with various positions that allow for easy access. In the meantime, you can begin with him lying on his back. Insert your finger(s) about an inch or so, and when your partner is comfortable, move your finger(s) in an upward motion along the wall of the rectal lining that faces the front of his body. Try to locate a round bulb of tissue — this is the prostate. Once you locate this area, move your finger(s) in a "come here" motion, as if you were asking someone to move closer to you so that you could whisper a secret. Use your finger pad(s) on the tip(s) of your finger(s) to massage the prostate, and be mindful of not using your nail(s). Ask him what feels good and how he wants to be touched. While you are touching your partner in this way, you can ask if he wants more or less pressure, or slower or faster strokes. You can also ask him if he wants you to touch his penis, testicles, or perineum simultaneously. Some men like oral sex or kissing at the same time, too.
Be aware that receiving anal stimulation may cause feelings of having to go to the bathroom. More often than not, this is just a "feeling" that the stimulation causes and may take some getting used to. If your partner indeed does find pleasure from this experience, it might set him over the edge if you rhythmically or irregularly press on his prostate gland before or during ejaculation. It is even possible for men to orgasm through prostate stimulation alone.
Hopefully, you'll hit the jackpot with this rectal rub. At a minimum, you will be learning together, trusting each other, and having a new experience.
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Dr. Raphael Nyarkotey Obu is a registered alternative medical practitioner who specializes in prostate cancer. He studied the Masters program in prostate cancer-Sheffield Hallam University, UK. He is a PhD student, Indian Board of Alternative Medicines Academy, Kolkata, India and the founder of Men’s Health Foundation Ghana and De Men’s clinic and Prostate Research Lab in Dodowa, Akoto House. Tel: 0541090045, 0500106570. E.mail:[email protected]
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