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08.04.2016 Opinion

 3 Straightforward Laws Of Attraction

By shadrack .k. Datrey Akrofi-Quarcoo
3 Straightforward Laws Of Attraction
08.04.2016 LISTEN

Diversity inherent in humanity may equal the breadth of the sea shore or the granules of sand particles along the coasts. It may be as a result of such diversity and the complexity it presents that great men like Abraham Lincoln is quoted to have said ‘…if friendship is your weakest point, then you are the strongest in the world’.

The challenges and complexity of relationships notwithstanding, friendships could be seen as one of the primary building blocks of life. In relation to marriage, Socrates the Philosopher is known to have made statements to the effect that ‘be slow to enter into relationships, but once in it, stay steady till end’ and also ‘…no matter what, marry; if you get a good woman you would be happy! And if you don’t get a good woman, you would still get to become a philosopher…’!

From the introduction above, we may have realized a few of the sharp different perceptions people have on relationships.

The aim of this article isn’t to argue out one side of divide against the other; rather, since relationships in various degrees is generally recognized as an essential for achievement, fulfilment and success, I intend to discuss a few pretty simple skills which if mastered would enhance relationships and fulfilment in life.

Below are three ''tips for been effective at attracting & enhancing friendships/relationships”:

  1. SMILE: - a smile seemingly costs nothing, yet due to the stress of daily pursuits, we unconsciously are caught frowning/ 'straight face' by potential people who may want to court our friendship. When we practice the habit of 'Conscious Smiling', our ambience is almost always bright and welcoming. Consequently, ability to attract positive comments from passerby’s, as well as our significant others is greatly enhanced. I enjoin readers to give conscious smiling a try today; some longtime admirers would start getting closer
  2. (ii) OFFER SERVICE: - why not offer to serve the food at dinner? Or why not dust the chairs before that meeting? Or help clean the messed up floor while at friend’s home? Why not offer helping hand voluntarily to someone as surprise? Why NOT serve? Remember that, 'He who wants to be greatest MUST FIRST SERVE'…!!! Do you really ‘wonna’ make& master relationships? Then, SERVE, and serve BEST FIRST!
  3. (3) ALLOW SPACE, APPRECIATE MORE- building a relationship in itself is heavy enough a task; how much more looking out for every single weakness in what you may be expending so much resources to build?? Look out for positives and VOICE IT! Don’t just meditate or fantasize in thoughts how great your partner/friend is: NO! NO! NO! The advent of social media (email, facebook, wassup, skype, instagram, tweets etc) are all there to help you commend the positive feats of your partner. Use creativity to magnify the outstanding attributes of your partner; by so doing, enhance the quality of your relationships. Give your partner a treat of simple things like popcorn, ice cream, chocolate bars, air time, terrific Tuesdays, happy-hour Fridays, bank account top up, vacation trips, preparing a favorite meal together amongst others. Let’s get quick to commend and slow at condemning.

Enjoy a surge of positive friendships& relationships towards mutual benefits.

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