Chichi appears to be phlegmatic in inclusion throughout the show, whereas Bomaye is typically choleric in control and in inclusion. If Chichi's temperament (phlegmatic) is real, then naturally a choleric man would prefer a phlegmatic woman because he can easily dominate and control her absolutely; consequently there would be peace in the family. Hence, in terms of temperament, Bomaye may naturally choose Chichi because there will be little or no argument between them, Chichi would easily succumb to Bomaye's ideas/decisions without cross-examination even when his decisions/ideas may not be wholesome all the times. But the major disadvantage that would ensue in such relationship is that the family would be bereaved of quality innovations and ideas.

Both Princy and Bomaye are choleric in inclusion and perhaps in control, therefore, Bomaye and Princy cannot form a clique naturally. Both of them have dominative disposition, in such scenario; neither would give-in whenever opinions differ. Thus, there would be frequent argument and limited peace between them. Therefore, Bomaye may not choose Princy because he cannot dominate her always; because two (2) kings cannot live in one palace together.

As for Promzy, she is sanguine in inclusion, sanguine in affection and perhaps sanguine in control. She is highly assertive. This is the main reason why bomaye feels she disrespects him during conversation (but such is an erroneous conclusion). As a result of her sanguine nature, Promzy is romantically uninhibited; hence some people ignorantly concluded that she is not decent (but such is a fallacious statement). From my perspective, I feel that Bomaye has nothing substantial to discredit Promzy. Certainly he loves her but he is not very comfortable with her cheerful, assertive and confident nature (sanguine temperament). Hence he always looks for baseless excuses such as: 'she is disrespectful, she doesn't take initiative unless when told, she is a terrible cook, and she is not hardworking'. These allegations are null and void and therefore should be disregarded and discarded. For instance, Bomaye said that Promzy is a terrible cook; but I saw Promzy prepared a meal in the house; and when Bomaye was eating the meal, he ate the food completely without any remnant ( how can he justify this?). Bomaye also said that she is not hardworking, but I also saw Promzy in the house collecting Bomaye's cloths for laundry/washing (how can he justify this?).

I am still not very sure of the primary objective of the 'AM IN LOVE WITH BOMAYE SHOW'. Is Bomaye really looking for a life partner (wife)? Or is he just doing ordinary entertainment? If Bomaye really needs a wife from the maidens, then I strongly feel that Promzy should be the chosen one. But if the show is just for entertainment, then Chichi or Princy may be the chosen one.

In conclusion, Chichi may be good for Bomaye but Bomaye is not good for Chichi.

AN ARTICLE WRITTEN BY: ADEWUSI SUNDAY EZEKIEL