Playing hard to get is a waste of time. Love is real, being real is the best way to find love.

Men are hunters they say. Let him hunt, let him chase, etc, etc. Why can't love be natural and just evolve. I've realised what society taught me when I was young was nonsense. Don't be cheap, be expensive. How about just be yourself and maybe the person who is meant to love you will. How about not playing games and being involved in the thrill of the chase, because the chase will have to continue.

The problem with men chasing and women getting caught. Is the woman turns into something she's not, pretending she doesn't want to talk to a guy when she does, pretending she's not interested when she is and she might end up loosing someone fantastic, all because she's playing a stupid game. If someone likes you they do- if they don't no amount of holding cheese to a string, to get the guy to chase you will work.

Players also love the thrill of the chase, so do men who love to dominate. It's time we start getting real, love is meant to be pure, maybe some of us if we did not play the game would have found authentic love.

Instead of chasing, hide and seek and pretending, why not be ourselves and learn that's enough to get the love we desire.

By Tuntum Nahana Akosua