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02.06.2017 Feature Article

The Relationship Code And The Philosophy Of Love

The Relationship Code And The Philosophy Of Love
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"You don't love someone for their looks, or their clothes, or for their fancy car, but because they sing a song only you can hear (Oscar Wilde).

As sure as the sun will rise every morning and set in the evening just the same, that is how your love should be. Love is an everyday thing. As a noun, the condition--that is feeling, security, care, trust, mercy, etc of your man or woman is very important. As a verb, is something you do everyday, how you love each other everyday. Love is not an adjective where you can make partial changes to suit your interest.

Don't compare your love story to those you watch in moves. They are written by script writers, yours is written by God. The originality of love is in your heart. It's always good you follow your heart, but make sure you don't leave your brain behind.

Love is the greatest gift when given. It is the highest honour when received. You can't buy love because when it's real, it's priceless. Don't use IPhone 7 or any material thing as a measure of love because all these things fades away, even beauty but true love never fades. Never allow pursuits or possessions to become bigger priorities than your relationship. Love is what gives meaning to life.

Have enough time for your relationship. Don't make your man or woman wait for you in bed at night while you are busy chatting with online people who add no value to your life, changing pictures to please guys or ladies online will do you no good. Don't be spellbound by the number of likes you get on Facebook and Instagram because chimpanzees equally get likes when you put their pictures on Facebook and Instagram. Even in a monkey's beauty contest, there is always a winner. The reason for the breakdown of most relationship today is because most people have failed to understand the difference between like and love. Social media has become a major evil in relationships. Beware. Every woman is beautiful, she just need a man that truly loves her. Every woman deserves a man who loves and respects her, but every man deserves a woman who appreciates his efforts.

No relationship is all sunshine, but once you have learned how to play in the rain, you have discovered the secret to surviving the passing storm together. If you are into a relationship that doesn't add love, trust, and value to your life, then it doesn't belong in your life. Being in a relationship with someone with the same philosophy of life is the best.

You should always think of making your marriage more beautiful than your wedding. Wedding is an aspect of marriage. Wedding is just a day,but marriage is a life time, a journey you have to prepare. Happy is the man who finds a true friend, and far happier is he who finds that, that true find is his wife. Where there is love, there is life.

The Love you give will not always be the love you receive, love is not about fulfilling expectations. “Love is always bestowed as a gift -freely, willingly, and without expectation. We don’t love to be loved, we love to love (Leo Buscagalia).

The Wisdom of Love.
“Love is patient. Love is kind. Love does not envy. Love does not boast. Love is not proud. Love is not rude. Love is not self-seeking. Love is not easily angered. Love keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil. Love rejoices with the truth. Love always protects. Love always trusts. Love always hopes. Love always perseveres. Love never fails.

(1 Corinthians 13: 4-8)
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