How To Tell She Is Cheating On You

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1. She’s not sharing details about her life with you

Anyone who's ever told a lie understands the risk of getting caught when people start pressing you for more details. With each added layer of falsehood, you’re that much closer to exposing yourself as a liar.

So how does that translate to relationships? "What you're not talking about can be very telling," Brateman says. "For example, if she comes home from a two-day conference and doesn’t talk about the conference, that could be a clue that something's up. People do not like to talk about something that hasn’t happened for fear of being discovered."

2. You’re no longer her go-to guy

It’s also a big deal when you’re not the first or even second person that she talks to about her day, according to Brateman. “It likely means she's talking about all that to someone else,” Brateman says. “And sharing personal details of her life with this other person who truly listens and encourages her only deepens their emotional connection.” Brateman says when a spouse used to tell you about a co-worker or friend and then stops talking about them entirely, chances are something may be up.

3. She looks noticeably different

“Cheaters have the tendency to change physically,” Orlando says. “Love handles disappear, posture changes, makeup gets applied daily, and their muscle tone/definition returns.”

So, if your girlfriend who used to wear sweats and no makeup to do errands is now getting dressed up and doing her makeup before leaving the house to go to the convenience store, that might trip a few alarm bells, according to Orlando. The key factor here, though, is whether these changes are sudden and drastic, Orlando says. “Sometimes, it's not necessarily what they're doing, but what they are doing differently.” Brateman says.