BITTER TRUTH ON MARRIAGE (Part 12) Children In Marriage

When your children do what pleases you, it does not mean that they are pleased. You require effective communication skills specially for your children.

Find out what interests them so that you will guide them to the correct things. If you don't find out what interests them, they will not do what interests you. Discover their good talents and encourage them.

Children have concepts of sex from age 4 to 5. They will say: “We are playing daddy and mummy” Who told them? You think they are so daft and ignorant that when you return from as trip and you both keep quiet in the room and you are not in the living room and wait for them to go to bed, they don't conceive what is happening?. Don't fool yourself to think they don't know what is going on. Just let them know that it is legitimate but that their time will come. Teach them that if they keep themselves, they will be able to have the same pleasure. Then, you are raising children properly.

Righteousness is not a slogan. It is something that is done as a result of the fear of God in our lives that we got from our parents; that we transmit to our children.

God has promised in his word that past blunders will not destroy future destinies.

The place where a person becomes either a righteous person or a criminal is in the heart. The place where a person becomes wealthy and the other person becomes poor is in the heart. The place where one becomes successful, the other one a failure is in the heart. Everything comes from the heart of man. So, the heart of the children must be guided properly.

Deacon ALBINUS CHIEDU
Coordinator, MARRIAGE CAN WORK PROJECT
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...TO BE CONTINUED (Questions Are Welcome)