Do I Have A Future With Him?

I met this wonderful man a couple of months ago and for the first time in my life I know I have met my soul mate.

He is great but comes across as a bit of a dictator. Whatever he thinks or says is final. He invites me to his home when he feels like it but he gives me everything like buying beautiful clothes for me. This is something no man has ever done for me.

He doesn't talk much and he is evasive when I want to know where the relationship is heading. I know it is too early but I want to know everything about him.

I am crazy about him and I want to know if I have a future with this man.

Trish, Esikado

Dear Trish,
What is wrong with you? You have been with this man for just a couple of months and you want to know if you have a future with him?

Why the rush my dear? Please take a chill pill and allow water to find its own level.

You are expecting too much too soon and that is why you are already entertaining these fears. Give the relationship time to mature and take things one step at a time otherwise you might scare him away.

Since he is the best thing that ever happened to you, take it easy and get to know him and I’m sure he would return the love and affection you show him.

People are different so don’t expect him to act in a particular way because that is what you would have done. The moment he is assured of your trust, he will open up.