Here’s Why Some Ghanaian Men Are Struggling To Get Girlfriends

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Women are not the only people struggling to find partners to build amazing relationships with; some men can’t simply land a girlfriend no matter what they do.

I have had conversations with men who simply can’t decipher why any lady they come across reject their love proposals.

Trust me a lot of men are having serious issues with finding love and it’s their entire fault!

Here’s why girls don’t take you serious and are rejecting your proposal.

Your approach
Some Ghanaian men use the wrong approach on a lady they would like to date. They meet them on the street or wherever and they introduce themselves by the work they do. These men ensure that the first encounter with the woman is all about their career and job. This is a turn off for most ladies who are forced to think that you want to impress them.

Do you work?
I don’t know if this is the latest trend but some men meet women ask for contact and the next question is, do you work? Where do you work? These questions are not advisable to ask when you meet a potential partner for the first time. Save it for later before you lose this girl too.

Call reciprocity
So some few months ago I met this guy who begged for my number. Although hesitant to give it out, I wanted to be spared the, “it takes just a day to know somebody” sermon so I gave it out. This guy called me like three times and then on the 4^th occasion, he was already asking why I don’t also call him. That was it! I rejected his call up till now. We are not in a relationship and you’re already complaining?

Talking manners
Some men will get girlfriends all right but the relationship ends so fast and it’s always the girls who leave them because they don’t know how to talk and treat a lady. If you are all about commanding and shouting on her at the least provocation then you shouldn’t be surprised why the women always leave you .

Appearance
Women don’t expect you to raze down a boutique before accepting your proposal. However, you need to be great with your appearance. Just as men check out women before they make a move, women have also taken men’s appearance serious. Neatly shaved, fresh cloths, clean belt and shoes are some of the things women look at so my guy up your game!