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Husbands Cheating In Marriage Is Not Normal And Should Not Be tolerated

By Candace Larweh-Martey
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24.11.2017 LISTEN

God is only obligated to bless a marriage He ordained. The vows of marriage are broken once your hasband has sex with another woman because he has then entered into another covenant.

God can restore and repair, yes, but He is not obligated to do so just because we pray. Man must be willing to change, and no one can force him to do that.

I'm not leaving my home ever. The side chick is not the loser. The husband is. I could give two cares about who the chick is, I'm not married to her. I'm married to him, and what he does is sure as heck my business.

If he wants to ruin his own family that's his issue, but I'm not going to play the fool and sit back for him to disrespect me, my marriage, my home, my family, my integrity, and everything else I have built with him.

Speak to him about it? The same him who doesn't care enough about you to respect your marriage vows in the first place? Remind him of those vows like he has forgotten?

He knows his vow and the truth is he doesn't care. If that's your cup of tea, enjoy the flavor, but as for me? Forget it. Adultery is NOT normal in marriage and shouldn't be tolerated because men know women will sit back and stay,

stay, stay, stay, stay and THAT is why they feel it's ok to cheat in the first place, because there is an unspoken understanding that a woman will stick by his side no matter how she is treated. That is a wrong mentality. God hates divorce, but He hates sin too and adultery is a sin.

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