Becca Listen To Sweet Mother

Ladies and Gentlemen, loyal readers. You read my article https://www.modernghana.com/news/905641/kumkum-bhayga-don-catch-becca.html, and https://www.modernghana.com/news/910247/becca-is-not-judas-but-nam-1s-peter.html. Now you will see I'm a woman of wisdom. I saw it then and now Mrs Tobi Sanni Daniel, formerly her own woman Rebecca Akosua Acheampong ( Becca) has allowed her husband to cut her off her mother allegedly because Tobi believes Becca's mother, Madame Julie Yiadom-Oti is a witch.

I couldn't believe what I was watching in Julie Yiadom-Oti's interview with Ghana celebrities.com Chris Vincent. The video if you would like a watch is on YouTube. In this modern day and age. An Asante child like Becca whose suppose to have house wisdom, like they say in twi. Severly lacks it. So do her other Akan friends Stacy Amoateng and Soraya Mensah. Afia Schwarzenegger also lacks this house wisdom, otherwise she wouldn't have posted videos on her Instagram page insulting Becca's mother.

Now there are different types of Ashanti's and Akans in general. There are those who have done the forbidden and left their culture behind and become lost people. The " Uptown girls from Oseikroam." Becca raps about in her new song Driving Licence. The type of woman Becca is becoming. This woman doesn't know being a woman is not just about being sexy, dressing up and accomplishing. A real woman is wise and resourceful. Ashanti's are the rich black people in the forest. An Ashanti is proud to be black, A real Ashanti is against bleaching. A real Ashanti loves having black skin, a real Ashanti has house sense. There are the lost Ashanti's who have thrown away their culture, who are not proud of who they are and want to imitate western lifestyles or like having a colonial mentality. That is not the Ashanti way. I am only a quarter Ashanti and I know this.

The Ashanti kingdom is not a small thing. It's just these days the uptown boys and girls ( those lacking in cultural etiquette, who portray themselves living a high life) are ruining the Ashanti name. You think if that was all there was to the Asante Kingdom. It would be great because of war. Asante's used intelligence to crawl and conquer. Other tribes in Ghana are also great. Ghana is a mix of fantastic tribes, but those who have decided to leave their culture behind in the name of being uptown ( without being sophisticated) are usually the ones lacking in wisdom and bringing the country backward.

The rest of the interview between Becca's mum and Chris Vincent is layered with Becca and Tobi's lack of respect for Becca's mum. As well as an insight to the unhealthy relationship Becca is in. As well as Becca's lack of wisdom. Becca's mum is the one who has to tell Becca to buy a house. Becca's mum is the one who has to tell Becca to beware of a man who hasn't married her having access to her business contracts. Becca's mum is the one who has to explain to Tobi she can't clean Becca's step mums house, because Tobi was upset with her because of that. What I don't understand is how rich people like Tobi and Becca can't afford cleaners to clean. They want a woman whose just had an operation to be cleaning. I don't even want to start on Becca's father, when he was a 35 year old man he impregnated a 15 year old girl. He has the nerve to be typing ridiculous letters against Becca's mum. About Christianity, morals and keeping family secrets. Meanwhile he went from radio station to station when Kiki Benson wanted to marry Becca. Stating he will disown her, for attempting to break a family. Meanwhile he likes to sleep with little girls when he's married. I also have very little respect for Becca's step mum, for staying with a man who could do that to a little girl. On top of that Becca, her father, her step mum and Tobi allowed Becca's mum to sit at the back at Becca's wedding. Afia Schwarzenegger's video of the wedding proved Becca's mum was telling the truth, they didn't even mention her name. However, the classy woman she is carried on with the wedding to support her disrespectful child because she loves her. Becca's mum hasn't insulted Becca's dad or anyone the way she could have. She has handled herself with class and dignity , she's right she's from an Asante home. All the elegance the old Becca had came from her mother. Those people saying Becca's mum abandoned her or left her to the father, and that is the reason why Becca's not close to her. Also lack house sense. Ofcourse Becca's Dad and his wife have to look after the child he had with the 15 year old. Did he expect the 15 year old to be responsible for the child. According to Becca's mum she never abandoned her anyway.

Stacy Amoateng posted wisdom under Afja Schwarzenegger's post insulting Becca's mum. Soraya Mensah was Becca's lawyer under Afia Schwarzenegger's video and on her own instagram page. As well as Okyeame Quophie Stacy's husband who posted something disgusting. Should be ashamed of themselves. For so called Christians and people who say they are wise, classy and mind their own business yet post cryptic, passive aggressive and insulting posts. Make it clear a fool doesn't know they shout out their own foolishness in an attempt to proclaim they are wise. Becca also thanked them for wanting to support her, in her ridiculous thing she called an apology to her mum. Where she praised her husband, said she loves and is cordial with her mother ( the person who is not cordial with her and hasn't spoken to her, because she's been cut off ) and doesn't want people to disrespect her mother.

Yet she disrespected her mother by thanking those who support her for supporting her ( those who joined in insulting or clapping for those who insulted her mother), she said in Ghana even if an adult is wrong you close your mouth, and added her step mum is watching. She has two mothers. She loves her step mum and her dad, her husband is respectful, responsible and family matters should be sorted at home. She won't add to her mum's mistake. Basically saying what her mum said in her interview its Chris Vincent is bogus. At least she condemned her father impregnating her mother when she was 15. She had nothing to say about not telling her mum she was pregnant or not sending her mum pictures of her daughter.

All I can say is since Tobi Becca has lost her self respect, her self and her love of her culture and identity. Now she cheapens herself, sings mostly ridiculous songs which cheapen her and now she's allowed her husband and friends to cut her mother off. I hope she realises that this woman who didn't throw her away when she found at she was pregnant at 15. Loves her. If she didn't she would have walked out of her wedding when they sat her at the back. If Becca is not careful, Tobi, her father, step mum and her friends will chop her money, leave her to be foolish and in the end she will realise she should have been wise.