"Let him pay before he "chops" if he is not married to you - Counselor, George Lutterodt
Self-acclaimed relationship and marriage counselor, George Lutterodt has advised women who are not married to commercialize sex in order to make it to earn a living.
The controversial Counsellor in an interview with Pastor Azigiza Jnr on Accra-based Number One FM’s Gospel Breakfast show, indicated that, the only way for ladies to stop guys from demanding for sex is by letting them pay for it.
He explained that, “People who want to have sexual intercourse before getting married, have a reason for it. I’ve heard people saying that when you continuously sex before marriage, the trust is broken; it’s a lie. I’m speaking to you as a professional. It’s a lie because you don’t need trust in a marriage, you need belief”.
“People say when you sleep with another woman’s husband, some other woman will sleep with your husband. People are sleeping with the husbands of women who have never slept with anyone’s husband before.
He argued that it is better to have a financial gain from having sex with a man who is not married to you than to do it for free. He further on argued that it is a fallacy to say that women who sleep with married men will end up marrying womanisers. According to him, karma as we all know to be a natural law doesn’t work like that when it comes to relationship issues.
He also claims that guys who have sex with women all the name of “testing their wares “in order to be sure it will suffice in marriage should equally be made to pay for it. Once the lady agrees to be “tested” before legality then she should equally demand some money as what she is doing is equal to prostitution.
“This guy who wants to sleep with the girl before marriage, because he has used the mentality for testing, if the girl is willingly ready to practise prostitution, she should go ahead and make money out of it”, he said.
He continued with an example to buttress his point: “You’re practising prostitution if you don’t make babies. If the guy wants to test it, put some value on it so that we know you have practised prostitution, which is the oldest profession in the world.
The controversial counselor however compared marriage to a high-risk investment and explained that if one goes into it and it doesn’t work out, they can always opt out but ensure that if they want to be tested, and the testing doesn’t go well, then at least they should make money out of it.
“Girl, if you want to test, you can go ahead but make sure the testing is of value to you, in case after testing he wants to drop it. If you think that you have the right and you’re a woman who is a second-hand car and do not deserve to be treated like a brand new car from a garage but you have to be tested because you yourself you don’t have value for yourself, then go ahead and test but make money out of it.”
Counselor, George Lutterodt is a very outspoken person and even though some people may disagree with some of his statements, it doesn’t seem to bother the controversial guy at all.
He believes that it is his duty to inform and educate you but at the end of the day, the final decision lies in your hands.