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Never Experienced an Orgasm FEMALES?

By Theresa Oppon
Fri, 22 Aug 2008 | Print | E-Mail | PDF | Graphics Version
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Orgasms varies from each individual female, it's a unique sensation that can be experienced with a partner or your own preference. An orgasm can occur after a certain threshold of excitement has been achieved. This involves stimulating the breast and nipple; clitoris or G-spot this experience can last up to a couple of seconds to minutes. Some say this experience feel like a gradual sensation that increases intensively.

Females can experience clitoral orgasm and G-spot orgasm. These are two totally unique experiences, clitoral orgasm can be achieved by stimulating the clitoris constantly until your partner notices swelling, continuing to stimulate eventually causes a builds up of intensity causing you to orgasm. During this stage you will experience involuntary movements, faster heart beats or deep tiredness. To achieve G-spot Orgasm its very important that you know where your G-spot is, when you are making love take it slow to start with. This will enable your wife to feel the different sensational spots in her vagina. Communicate with each other, For example as the penis is inserted moving more to the left or right, strokes her G-spot enabling her G-spot to swell gradually. Make sure the man sticks to that position until you a requested a change.
We are all different especially when it comes to sex, we like to be aroused and stimulated in different ways therefore our orgasms are very unique.

TIPS & ADVICE

- try and look and feel sexy before making love, make an effort.

- reduce or get ride of all pubic hair

- feel secure about yourself,love yourself love your body.

- try not to be shy

- make sure you're relaxed, stress can inhibit orgasms.

- try different sexual positions, make sure your partner knows if you are enjoying the positions. If you feel an enjoyable sensations during your chosen position tell your partner. At the end of the day your partners can give you different position it's up to you to communication your likes and dislike during love making, be mature!

- try not to focus on trying to orgasm, concentrate on the different sensation you feel whilst making love. Make it very clear to your partner that you are enjoying him stimulating you in the right place whether this is you clitoris or nipples. continuance stimulation for a period of time will gradually build the intensity and excitement.

- enjoys some fun and excitement before love making or whilst love making this can be achieved in a variety of ways; sex toys, whips, warm oils, vibrators, electrical stimulation, dressing up in costumes, different fruits or foods, its your choice!

- try investing more time for making love, exploring one another and being affectionate. As with any investment the long term benefits are positive.

Please don't compare yourself to anyone else's sexual experiences. Judge yourself by how much happiness you and your partner brings to each other. Do not take each other for granted and please remember to PRACTICE SAFE SEX and BIRTH CONTROL. Experiencing problems with your sex life. Do something about it, go and see a doctor, counsellor or sexual therapist, try not feel embarrassed.
Please feel free to pass on the information or email me:Theresa@modernghana.com

Thank you
Theresa Oppon

Theresa@modernghana.com


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