FINDING A SOUL MATE THE ORDINARY WAY [PART2]

What makes one successful in getting a hand of a woman in marriage? Is it the countless hours honing his profession as an accountant, lawyer, journalist, business executive, teacher, doctor, minister or pastor?

Is it his appearance in mainstream movies, on television shows, as a footballer or dazzling decades of attaining excellent grades in his courses at the nation's premier university?

Or is it because of her radiant beauty that is every bit as striking today at the age of 40 as it was when she entered the hardcore entertainment industry at the age of 28?

Maybe it is those outlandish, out-sized, outrageous and outstanding big boobs and shockingly statuesque 44DD-24-36 measurement that is why you are proposing love to a woman or accepting love proposal from a man.

In the case of finding a soul mate in the ordinary way its all those things, and many more, that contribute to landing a match for one to realize the dream of “I DO” and continues to enjoy the good stuff that comes with it.

Who could possibly be more expert at the art of putting all the tricks that can win a heart of a woman or seduced a man to become our soul mates in the ordinary way? Nobody we can think of and that is why I am scribbling this to share my opinion with you through this medium.

One of the greatest benefits of my profession as a journalist is accepting invitations to attend social gatherings and interact with some senior persons. It's also a great way to meet men and women I have certainly taken advantage of that fact over the years.

So when it comes to talking about relationships, seduction and sex-particularly when it involves mature men and women-I am in a unique position. Therefore when some of my fans approached me about scribbling an article on such issues, I welcomed the idea.

After all, I celebrated my second anniversary since I exchanged the marriage vows with Princess Osisiadan-Quaye[MRS] a month ago, and having a chance to reflect on and share the wisdom and experience I have acquired over the years and several years of dating before marriage, is a chance I simply couldn't pass up.

THE BASICS
If your goal is to surf on the pressure being piled up on you by your parents to get married soon and want to take advantage of this coming VALS DAY celebration by getting a woman's hand into marriage as quickly as possible you have to got to cover all the basics.

And to do that you have to start with yourself. Women either young or old are attractive to you, right? Take a good look in the mirror and see how attractive you are to a matured woman of age that you want as good grooming counts.

Personal hygiene is very important because women looking to meet new men respect and respond to a man who takes good care of his personal appearance. A scruffy beard, bad breath are deal breakers, so hit the shower and don't even think about approaching a woman until you are as clean as a whistle.

Now that you are well scrubbed, styled and dressed to impress, take some time to prepare yourself mentally for what comes next. You may think you know how the girls your age operate, but women a little older are a whole different deal.

Women of age who are looking for men are a whole different deal I repeat and would like to be treated with respect they have earned. So you have to be polite and respectful to them.” Do not be crude, rude or unnecessarily lewd before you have gotten to know a mature woman you want to love and marry very, very well.

Think before you speak and when you do speak, speak loudly and clearly as nobody, particularly matured women, likes a mush mouthed mumbler.

THE HUNT
Where are the matured women you are hunting for? They are all around you. Put in a little effort and it shouldn't be at all difficult to locate all the mature women you can possibly handle.

Visit the local mall, go to the park, go to the entertainment centers, the night shows, parties and the clubs. Keep your eyes moving and it won't be long before you've found a suitable subject for your seduction.

Still no luck? Get creative in your search. Why not volunteer down at a neighborhood women center? Talk about happy hunting grounds.

No matter where you find the mature woman of your dreams, the time is going to come when you will need to walk right up to her, introduce yourself and get the ball rolling.

I realize that is not easy for all men because women respond to self confidence, but they can also be charmed by a certain amount of shyness. The sky is to “keep it real”, and be your self as you be honest, sincere and respectful in speaking your mind.

If you think a matured woman is pretty say so. If you like her outfit, pay her a compliment. Flattery, in the right amount, is always welcome, no matter what you may have heard or read.

Time for a bit of bad news: You will strike out more than you will score. That is just the way of the world, get used to it. But every lady you approach who says “NO” puts you that much closer to the one who says “YES”.

So, from the bottom of my heart, I wish you good luck, successful connection and as much satisfying dating with the matured woman of your dreams as possible as you start to fish for her come this VALS DAY or whatever day you have set for yourself.

Happy Soul Mate Finding This VALS DAY In Advance.

Pix: “NO MATURED WOMAN LIKES A MUSHED-MOUTH MUMBLER”

STAY TUNE FOR THE PART [3] OF FINDING SOUL MATE IN A CHRISTIAN WAY COMING NEXT WEEK.