taurygirl | South Lake Tahoe-USA (Location: United States) | 12/28/2008 2:47:00 PM i love your article.. it made me realize a lot of things about my ex-boyfriend. We've been together for almost 2 years and just broke up five months ago. It was very painful because for one i can't really understand the real issue why he broke up with me. For another, i just found out that there's something happened between him & our officemate and it all started from there after i told him what i've found out. He started telling me that it'll be better for us to end our relationship 'cause he's not yet ready for such serious commitments. He still wants to prove something to his family and yeah to be stable in his career.

The odd thing is, he still wants us to still be friends and still will go out together (dine-out & watch movies for some time) 'cause he said he's accustomed in doing these things with me. He don't want to let go of me but he doesn't want to commit.

Now, i want to really let go 'cause i feel like i've been being used or something like i just let myself be f**led with this kind of set-up wherein the guy whom i love has no plans in having a serious commitment with me. He's already 29 and I am 27.

It's just that everytime i think of him and the situation that i am into, it hurts.. really it hurts...

Hope soon i can get over him & hope to have that courage to really let go of him totally.

But indeed, thanks for your article. Thank you!