Cheating Signs To Look For In A Relationship

Cheating Signs To Look For In A Relationship -There are different kinds of cheaters. Some people try to be secretive about their two-timing, others don't bother about it at all. How to determine if your boyfriend is a cheater?

Here is a couple of tell-tale cheating signs and phrases. 

1. 'She is just a friend' –  You notice him talking to some girl you had no idea he was acquainted with. He's never mentioned her to you before. But when you ask him about her, he refuses to talk, saying she's just a friend of his. Chances are, she's really a side-chick.

2. 'Don't even go near my phone (laptop)' – If he gets angry or nervous whenever you take his gadgets, this may not be an issue of privacy alone. He is afraid you'll find some text messages, or pictures, from his secret lover.

3. 'I know you're cheating on me!' –  Cheaters would often accuse their partners of being unfaithful. They can't get rid of the idea that if they could do it, you probably did, too.

4. 'You are not good enough for me'  - He starts making fun of you and teasing you for everything while you just have no idea what the problem is. If he loved you, he wouldn't have cheated on you. That is why he makes himself think you are not his match.

5. 'I will do my laundry myself'  - At first, you think that it is sweet and kind of him. But what if he's trying to conceal traces of someone else's perfume, or hide a lipstick mark on his clothes?

6. 'I have a lot of work'  - He starts coming home late, with or without reasons. Is he really that busy with work… or with someone else?

7. 'I still love you and want to be with you'  - He might use these words after being caught. He might actually realize that cheating in you was a mistake, and that he still loves you. Would you take him back, though?

8. 'I didn't want to hurt you'  - Of course he didn't. He was selfishly focused on his own pleasure. One rarely has an affair just to hurt their partner.

9. 'I don't want to lose you'  - He thinks you're going to leave him and gets really scared. He didn't think that having sex with someone else could ruin your relationship. Or was he thinking you would never know about it?

10. 'She means nothing to me' – He admits they did have a fling, but assures you it's a thing of the past. Is it, really?

There is a chance that two-timing ladies tend to use same excuses, too. Be alert and don't overlook these cheating signs!

by Clement Ejiofor