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Maintaining Your Marriage

By totalfamilylife.com
Love & Relationships un happy couple
OCT 21, 2014 LISTEN
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– By Pastor Bisi & Yomi Adewale
One major problem with marriage is the problem of maintenance, it is easier to start a marriage than to maintain it, at the point of maintenance is the point where many people fail, so you need to learn to maintain your marriage and be intentional about it, go all out to build a great marriage by, keeping it like a good farmer will do to his productive trees.

“Whoso keepeth the fig tree shall eat the fruit thereof: so he that waiteth on his master shall be honoured”. (Proverbs 27:18 KJV)

To maintain your marriage there are many things to put into it.

To maintain you will need the following tools
Patience . You need to be patient. If your marriage must stand tall and solid.

         Forgiveness. The act of forgiveness also help you to keep your marriage, since you and your spouse will offend each other one way or the other in your journey in life.

         Prayer . Prayer is also needed, pray to protect, defend and rebuild your marriage.

         Time together. Spend time together, you can't build marriage if you are not always together spend time together to bond and jell, it will be a special gift to your marriage if you do that.

         Respect. Learn to respect and honour each other, help each other self esteem, by giving each other great regard no matter what happen.

         Selflessness . Be self less in your thinking, attitude, habit and in everything you do, marriage is not just about you, it is about both of you. Marriage is not me it is we.

         Responsibility. Be totally responsible at home do your duty as a man or woman, be responsible, that is what it takes to maintain marriage

         Fidelity. Be faithful to your spouse, don't Cheat on each other, weather in the area of money  or sex, be totally open so that you can build trust.

 
Bisi adewale is an international conference speaker on marriage and family life, the author of these best selling books: Secrets of an Irresistible Wife , Hot and Sizzling Marriage , 20 Highways to a successful  Marriage , Before you say I Do , and more than 60 other best selling books on marriage and family life.

He is the president of Family Booster Ministry and College of Marital Success (CMS) (Africa's Premier Marriage Institute), Host of Family Booster Moments on TV, watched in many countries across the globe.

Bisi Adewale also hosts the popular Lagos Couples' Conference and breakthrough for singles' summit

Get a free book from him here, you can buy his books on amazon.com or familybooster.com , join him on Facebook.com/totalfamilylife .

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