Making The Most Of Your Marriage

There are four things you must discover about marriage if you want to make the most of it, they are:

What marriage is not
What marriage is
What makes a marriage work
What can destroy marriage.
 
WHAT MARRIAGE IS NOT:
-          Not a battle field.
-          It is built for two not for three. Don't allow a third party to rock your boat.

-          Not a finished product. You must continue to work on it.

-          Not a place to blame each other.
-          Not an auto-drive, it is a self-drive. It will not be a success without your effort and contribution.

-          Not a place to fight for leadership. The man is the head, but he must be a good head not a headache.

-          Not a place to treat a woman like a foot mat.

-          Not a place of competition.
-          Not for better I stay, for worse I go.
-          It is not a place to fight it out, it is a place to settle.

Culled from Hidden Destroyer of marriage . Click to order for your own copy

 
Bisi adewale is an international conference speaker on marriage and family life, the author of these best selling books: Secrets of an Irresistible Wife , Hot and Sizzling Marriage , 20 Highways to a successful  Marriage , Before you say I Do , and more than 60 other best selling books on marriage and family life.

He is the president of Family Booster Ministry and College of Marital Success (CMS) (Africa's Premier Marriage Institute), Host of Family Booster Moments on TV, watched in many countries across the globe.

Bisi Adewale also hosts the popular Lagos Couples' Conference and breakthrough for singles' summit

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