Crucial Things Singles Should Know

Crucial Things Singles Should Know Before Tying The Nuptial Knot

Some things are very important in marriage which everybody going into it should have its fore-knowledge in order to make success out of it. Though, small as they may seem but they determine the success or otherwise of any marriage.

(1) GOD HAS CREATED ONE PARTICULAR PERSON FOR YOU : When making a choice of who to marry, be informed that God has created one particular person for you to marry. Though there are many options but you are only permitted to choose one. At this junction you have to be careful before you make this decision because you will live with your choice whether good or bad.

(2) IT IS BETTER TO REMAIN SINGLE THAN TO MARRY THE WRONG PERSON:

Never rush into making this crucial choice, lest you set your joy on fire. Don't make the decision of who to marry based on academic qualification, wealth/affluence, height, hair, complexion or personal gain/aggrandizement. Instead let God lead you and you will be forever grateful. Please, don't allow anybody to push you into emotional torture and tears of tomorrow. Wrong choice of partner is like hell fire on earth. Do you want to experience hell on earth? If no, don't allow your age, or friends mount pressure on you. Don't succumb to match-making because match-making is not God's making. Always remember that your destiny is at stake and nobody can marry your divinely ordained husband/wife. Don't marry the person you think you can live with, marry the person you think you can't live without.

 
(3) MARRIAGE IS A FOREVER AFFAIR: Before you begin the journey into marriage, be aware that marriage is a forever journey. It only have entry door but there's no exit. Once you embark in this journey on your wedding day, there's no going back whether it's a smooth sailing or difficult one under the influence of a boisterous wind, you have no alternative than to keep on. Pause and ask yourself these questions. Do you think your present relationship will lead you into journey of joyful forever? Do you think you will be fulfilled marrying and staying with this brother/sister forever? Be sincere with yourself, face the reality, and avoid courtship deception lest you live your entire life in forever regret

(4) PREPARE TO BE HUMBLE IN MARRIAGE: You will hurt your partner and you will be hurt but you must prepare to forgive. The truth is people who sincerely love each other do fight. Though marriage is not a battle field hut it is an institution where disagreement and forgiveness are some of the ingredients that brings understanding and lasting relations. Do you find it difficult to forgive? Yes, don't go into marriage now until you possess the spirit of forgiveness.

(5)     MARRIAGE IS ABOUT LEADERSHIP & FOLLOWER-SIP. Every woman wants a man she can look up to, one who won't look down on her, one who will not destroy her self-esteem but a defender, provider and protector. She wants leadership that includes loving, gentle, caring, provision, godliness and gives her respect.

If you are a bad leader as a husband, you will have a rebellious wife as a follower. If you want to learn how to be a good Leader, a potential husband and great follower as a potential wife, attend COLLEGE OF MARITAL SUCCESS.

 
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