Wonder Of Appreciation In Marriage

As the refining pot for silver, and the furnace for gold, so is a man to his PRAISE” (Proverb 27:1).

Law of appreciation states that:   Marriage where appreciation is absent is a family in the process of depreciation what you don't appreciate will ultimately depreciate.

Appreciation is very important to the success or otherwise of a family, because appreciation increases love and harmony in the house.

Strangely enough most couples break this law at will; instead of appreciation, what you will be hearing is nagging, criticism, condemnation, cutting remarks (etc.). This is wrong and it is inimical to the growth of peaceful family life.

Every human love to hear words such as “I appreciate the way you clean the toilet”, Thank you for paying the children school fees” 'I love the way you dress and your hair do”, If we receive no appreciation, we feel hurt, we feel cheated and rejected.

One man said my wife never say thank you, even if I pay all the bills of this world. His wife said, “He never appreciate my food, my sexual exploit, my dressing, my activity in the house and everything about me, all he does when he comes home is “where is my food”, Napkin is not here, how I wish he would say you look nice … and cook very well”. I need not tell you that this couple is having a very bad marriage.

Almost every marriage can be improve through appreciation, but the irony is appreciation is the first victim of conflict in marriage

 
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