HOW TO NURTURE LOVE IN YOUR MARRIAGE

Love is like a new born baby it needs to be nurtured. Love is like a flower it needs to be tenders. Love is like a garden it needs to be nourished. Loves don't grow on its own, you need to plant it, weed fertilizes, water it and protect it. The reason why many former lovers turn to sworn enemies today is because they left their love un catered for, they left it in the cold of  the world hence, it grow old and cold and becomes worn out. In this piece 1 will open your eyes to how to nurture love in your marriage.

(1) Positive Thinking – Always think positively about your partner, never think of how to punish him or how to take vengeance. Major in his/her strong point. Avoid thinking or talking about his / her weak points.     

(2) Constant Verbal Expression of Love –
Tell him/her you love her always. Women, especially want to hear this, if you still love him/her, express it, say it, and tell him. Let him know it saying “I love you” is the best way to assure your spouse you do, please say “I love you”.

(3) Physical Expression of Love – Don't just say you love her, show it, express it, with positive actions. Buy gift for him/her, support her in the kitchen, help her to carry the baby pay school fees or house rent etc.

(4) Togetherness – If you want your love to grow, and then do things together. Walk together, talk, sleep, pray, play, travel, dress, bath (etc) together. Togetherness is the secret of great companionship.

(5) Trust each other – Distrust is one great killer of marriage, you can't love somebody you don't trust, hence build trust in your marriage. Stop listening to rumours, tell the truth. Be open, be plain, be transparent.

Bisi adewale is an international conference speaker on marriage and family life, the author of these best selling books: Secrets of an Irresistible Wife , Hot and Sizzling Marriage http://www.amazon.com/Sizzling-Marriage-Bisi-Michael-Adewale/dp/1453812296/ref=sr_1_6?ie=UTF8&qid=1391687312&sr=8-6&keywords=bisi+adewale , 20 Highways to a successful  Marriage http://totalfamilylife.com/books/20highways/ , Before you say I Do http://totalfamilylife.com/books/soaiw/ , and more than 60 other best selling books on marriage and family life.

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