Things Your Husband Needs From You

You can determine how your marriage will be by satisfying your husband desire, you can make your home a place to be by meeting his needs, and you can turn your home to a paradise on earth and make yourself the wife of a happy man by given your man what he desire. They are.

(1) Respect: Your man want you to respect him, No matter how good looking you are, how best you can cook and how good you are on bed, you can not find the good pleasure of your man if you are disrespectful and fond of embarrassing your man in the public. Men are egoistic in nature; to bruise your man ego means you do not want his peace, but if you respect him you have placed yourself in a vantage position to be number one in his life.

(2) Peaceful Home: A peaceful woman is the dream of any man any day. Your man want you to be peaceful, he want you to be meek and gentle. Nagging, strife, contention, disobedience, criticism, stubbornness, unhealthy rivalry with your in-law, constant fight with neighbours, malice, bitterness, resentment are things that can make a man to hate the woman he married.

It is better to dwell in the wilderness, than in a contentious and an angry woman” Prov 21: 19.

(3) SEX – To be frank with you, men generally love sex; they are passionate and aggressive about it. If you are fond of denying your man you may have a lot of things to regret later. Sex in marriage is not sinful. Satisfy your husband, be romantic, be available to your own husband never give room for the devil. Sex in marriage is not just for baby making (procreation) it is also for purity, pleasure and protection of your marriage.

(4) Attention – To give all your attention to your job and your baby may be to write letters to a bad marriage, men crave for the attention of their wives, wise women have learnt how to balance the relationship between them their spouses,

 
jobs and children. Men are “big babies” they feel jealous when all the attention is given to the real baby; they want their wives to be as loving and romantic as before the arrival of the baby.

Never make the mistake of committing your husband into the hands of house girls, you are likely going to regret it in future as house MAID can become house MATE, be wise give your husband the attention he desire, you will be glad you did.

(5) Good Food - Men generally love food, their heart go to the hands that serves them, good nutritious and timely food is the best food for your husband, the road into the heart of a man is through the kitchen door, you can't be a good wife if you are not a good cook. Give him good food not “burnt offering”; win the heart of your man through good cook.

Bisi adewale is an international conference speaker on marriage and family life, the author of these best selling books: Secrets of an Irresistible Wife , Hot and Sizzling Marriage http://www.amazon.com/Sizzling-Marriage-Bisi-Michael-Adewale/dp/1453812296/ref=sr_1_6?ie=UTF8&qid=1391687312&sr=8-6&keywords=bisi+adewale , 20 Highways to a successful  Marriage http://totalfamilylife.com/books/20highways/ , Before you say I Do http://totalfamilylife.com/books/soaiw/ , and more than 60 other best selling books on marriage and family life.

He is the president of Family Booster Ministry and College of Marital Success (CMS) (Africa's Premier Marriage Institute), Host of Family Booster Moments on TV, watched in many countries across the globe.

Bisi Adewale also hosts the popular Lagos Couples' Conference and breakthrough for singles' summit

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