''Let Your Ghanaian Women Enjoy Making Love''

Thanks for Visiting, first of all Lets talk about Making Love.

This is an Act between Two People who Truly Love each other, this Beautiful Experience is not just Physically but Emotionally, Spiritually and Psychological as well.
This is an experience ONE should avoid being selfish at all times, YOUR partner should be satisfied, females enjoy making love but not necessarily Climaxing unlike men. Before making love you should arouse or turn each other 'ON' by implementing foreplay, this includes; soft tender stokes on both your bodies, (NO ONE SHOULD BE MAN HANDLED YOU SHOULD BOTH RESPECT EACH OTHER).
Gentle french kissing, holding and hugging each other, complimenting each other especially when the woman is naked. This method also helps a female to feel more confident and secure within her own body IN RETURN SHE WILL FEEL COMFORTABLE BEING WITH YOU. Foreplay has a huge impact on your partner especially FEMALES. These methods causes the woman Vagina to lubricate naturally enabling her to enjoy making love and to feel more relaxed. When you finish making love don't get up and reheat your Dinner! stay with your partner and comfort her with your warmth and tenderness.

'Unfortunately in Ghanaians Culture' when a woman is enjoying Making love, she is seen as being SPOILT, or a PROSTITUTE. WHY?
''Can't your Ghanaian Woman enjoy Making Love'' this should not be a selfish act at all, due to ones assumption of the myth some ladies unfortunately are treated with no respect and may encounter FORCEABLE SEX or RAPE, her partner Inflicts this sexual unwillingness and unconsented Sex in a way of punishment and control.

This assumption can also be seen among some people who are Heavily into the faith such as christianity, making love has become so Holy to the extend that love making becomes repetitive, such as missionary position (Man lying on top of a Woman), unsatisfying unable to try new Positions due to one believing she is Spoilt. As I mentioned above making love, this should be enjoyable and not Selfish. All Preconceived ideas and assumptions should be sorted out before you enter any relationship or marriage. Ridicules myths like this should be eradicated from our culture. It's okay MEN for you to be affectionate even if you're not affectionate if your woman may makes noises when you're making love to her she is not spoilt or a prostitute. This means she is enjoying the love making and I am sure as a Man one is able to distinguish from sexual noises and painful noises. If her Vargina is WET its due to you arousing her correctly and stroking the right Spot be glad and proud of your self. Its never to late to learn, its okay to show emotion in actual fact if one had emotions inflicting this act on a woman would make you feel guilty, this is a good it's also a wake up call and a time for change.

Now us Ladies are aware of these assumptions in our culture, some accept it and prefer to behave Num-bless, whilst Love making or innocent. Unfortunately this behaviour has it's downfalls in the relationship making love becomes boring it become a CHORE that's not enjoyed. Ladies Please be strong if you are very shy it time to wake up and find new confidence within yourself to speak to your Partner as this behavior only enforces fear and control into the relationship MAKE IT CLEAR TO HIM THAT HE TURNS YOU ON!!

Enjoy making love, explore one another, enjoy each other. If you are single step into a new relationship with a renewed mind, change your assumptions and cultural myths about Love Making. Focus on satisfying one another as this is a beautiful experience, pour your heart out communicate with each other, get to know one another. Take your time, if you are finding it hard to overcome these assumptions try and read more books about Love making gain knowledge you will realise that you have been defeated. KNOWLEDGE IS POWER ASSUMPTION'S COVER WEAKNESSES IN THIS CASE AND ALLEVIATES NEGATIVITY.

Please if you know anyone who has been brained washed with these assumptions Please feel, free to pass on the information or email me. Unfortunately people take these perceptions in to Relationships and Marriages, in a marriage these assumptions can cause unnecessary unhappiness due to life long commitment. One tends to tolerate such behaviour, it's unacceptable it not right, noting positive comes out of This Ghanaian Cultural Assumption.

Thank you

Theresa Oppon
Theresa@modernghana.com